We are taught at an early age not to stare. Society sets unenunciated rules on how many nano-seconds can elapse before a glance becomes a look and a look becomes a stare and a stare becomes an ogle and an ogle becomes a leer. Stray over those time limits and one risks consequences that range from glares to gunplay.
In our increasingly crowded populace of me-ism and paranoia, danger lies in misinterpreted non-ogles. News item: “West Side Bar Shootingâ€â€”victim was watching powder room door for wife to emerge. Gunman at bar between victim and powder room became enraged when he thought victim was staring at buxom girlfriend.â€
It pays to be careful where you are not ogling.
Legitimate observation may be taken negatively. One day at noon I drove into a parking lot of a busy hamburger joint on Congress Ave. in Austin. There were no parking spaces open. Then two men and three women came out of the restaurant and started to
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